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Okay, I know what you're going through having anxiety myself. The best thing to do is develop a hobby, read lots of books get lost in new worlds and see things from another persons eyes. When you're left alone to think a good confidence booster is to think about how you view other people, and how you don't care much about them when you see them, that helps a lot because it helps you remember no one is judging you as much as you think they are, to them you're just some random much like they are to you.

As you get older this gets easier so don't think so negatively on it, it's helping create your own identity.

Depends a lot on your age. If you still young (less than 20), then don't worry too much about it. With age comes a more clear view on things. Sometimes even more self esteem. Often a change of environment and friends can help too. Looks dont matter thats for sure. Just look at all the interesting people and celebs out there, who are famous but not necessarily good looking. One tip on making friends/social life work, is to help as many people as you can, with even little things. Its not how much you do for a single person, but what you do for many, if it comes to gaining social plus points. Yet you have to be carefull not to get exploited by people or putting yourself in a "use me" position. Its more the honest interest and love for other beings, even if they hurt you. help them. show them you are a person who can look beyond their negativity. Not sure if I explained well enough what I mean. But what I mean will work for some people. I really hope this will help you a bit since I know the feeling myself very well :)

What I suggest is dont give A'f. Why would you want to be part of such a cruel society that constantly judges you for how you look? Why be like everyone else? When instead you can be yourself and be proud because while everyone else is too busy trying to fit in you could be just be happy by doing what you love and yeah so what it means you might stand alone but it's better than having people stab you in the back and constantly talk behind your back. So really ask yourself why do you want to not be awkward? Plus would you rather be awkward or boring by being like everyone else?

First of all,you're not alone,I was in your situation I suggest following my tips:

Build up some confident,tell a joke or talk about something that interest you, don't be afraid to be criticized because people will have different opinion.

Try to meet new starting a fresh page with someone you don't know but close to you like someone from school or work and STAY CONFIDENT.

Show the people you already know who you really are,tell what you like and like about them(without offending any of them).

Follow these tips and search for more,you will find a lot of tips in YouTube videos and other websites.

GOOD LUCK!

Find ways to grow your Get a good, fun, and enjoyable hobby(gaming is a good one if you are scared to talk with friends close by)... Get an Instagram, Facebook, or just be active on a social network. Lastly, be positive. No one like negativity. I hope this helps

Assuming you aren't really young (based on your terrible grammar you may be), then you could have either Asperger's Syndrome or Schizoid Personality Disorder. See a psychologist to get a second opinion and appropriate treatment.

Find new friends and people that will like you for you

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See a pyschologist.