I have been on & off with a guy since Thanksgiving, and prior to that we have been dating a year. I love him so much & would marry him in a second. Recently, we have separated and I feel so sad. And last night, I was finally feeling good about being single, that I went out for a friends birthday, met a guy at the bar and had sex with him. Then today, I had a good talk with my guy & things are looking hopeful. NOW. HOLY COW I FEEL AWFUL. I know if I tell him, he will not want to be with me. Which, I would not blame him. I don't need to be called a slut or a whore, because I have not slept with my guy again, but I am how long should I wait to sleep with my guy? I love him & feel so stupid that I let myself have sex with someone because I was on the rebound. Should I tell him? We used protection. I just feel like I violated us. Because I did. It was the worst mistake ever, I really thought we were over. Ugh what a BAD IDEA. So how long should I wait & what if anything should I say to him? Something? Nothing?
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say nothing because its none of his business --- you were separated as far as you were BOTH concerned it was over ---- you had safe sex so what ??? ---- its not a big deal in the long term ---- besides if you cant sort out your problems by talking them out together and not breaking up i dont see a future for you anyway ---- it may have been a bad idea but no one forced you so did you enjoy??? if you did then move on and see what happens with your EX (which he is) ---- if you want to sleep with him then do so when you feel comfortable ---- you are both supposedly adults start acting like it ---- have fun
It sounds like you were broke up so you were free to do what ever you wanted to do. I don't see where it is any of his business what you did while the two of you were broke up.
ew. slumbering with someone who has slept along with your sister is all styles of the guy in reformatory, he's a criminal and criminals do no longer make sturdy companions or fathers
either dont tell him. or tell him but say about bad you feel and that it was a terrible mistake and tell him how you feel about it
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