I have known this girl for 5 years and we were the best of friends but a year ago I found the courage to tell her I like her. She told me she didn't feel the same. Now just a few days ago she asked me if I still have a crush on her and we were just joking around so thats what brought it up. I said i dont have a crush on her anymore and she said "oh good". Ever sense then shes been ignoring my calls, ignoring my texts, and stopped being my friend on Facebook. What happend? Why does she hate me all of asudden?
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It could be that she finally started liking you back, and was hurt that you didn't still like her too. OR it could be that she'd stayed your friend after you said you liked her because she didn't want to hurt your feelings, but now that you say you don't have a crush on her anymore, she doesn't feel the need to protect your heart and has moved on.
Btw "ignoring" is not the same as "hating." Hate requires feeling and action. Ignoring is just indifference, not being bothered to take action. Sure, being ignored hurts, but no need to amp up the drama with accusations of "hate" unless she starts cursing you out or telling people terrible things about you or something like that.
When she said "Oh good." That was a little white lie she just told you, my friend. Seemed like she did like you anyway but said no in the first place because it came as a shock and didn't know how to respond. She thought about it and was about to ask you out (I assume) but before she did, she had to confirm you still liked her. When she asked you if you still liked her, you replied no. This was a shock to her and she knew that she should've said yes to start off with. Not wanting to be in the friendzone, she's decided to hush up. Don't worry though, she might swing back around if not then it's time to move on. I recommend you don't say a word to her for about a week, if she hasn't said hi AT ALL then she's not intrested and probably moved on. Sorry if that hurt you bro. I understand.
I believe this is more than just a negligence. With 5 years of friendship, basic courtesy demands that she answer your phone, etc. This is a crucial time mate, if I am not too dramatic, she is trying to ignore you and move on. Meet her face to face and tell her your true feelings. Anyway, don't take it to seriously. That 5 years won't be lost, it will still be there in her memory. You can still be friends.
She probably does not hate you, but girls lie, inside when u said no she was probably really upset. If u still like her tell her.
She is probably likes you that why she asked.
Hope I helped :)
She was testing the waters to see if you still liked her, because she most probably realized she likes you too. When you said you didn't like her, her feelings were hurt.
She's playing dead. It's the advanced version of playing hard to get. Do not give up, bubbs.
But first check if she really is still alive.
I think she was scared to admit it. I think you should just go up to her and ask her why shes doing this and if she does have feelings for she needs to speak up!!